Yes, there are 4 steps in all and they’re all very important, too! Remember, the more a potential match knows about you, the more likely that they will find interesting things about you and will want to contact you.

Basic Profile (step 2): What’s that? Well that’s where you tell us (& your matches!) about the type of relationship you’re looking for, your appearance & demographic information & what you’re looking for in a match! It includes your physical stats, your marital status, religion, education, & smoking & drinking habits, among other things. You also indicate what you like in these areas as far as your match goes!

Essays (step 3): I know, you thought you were done with these in school, right? Nope. This where you really get to express your inner self, where you talk about your free time, your dreams, your opinions and what you’re looking for in your match. You get to write about your ideal dating situation, your ideal relationship, and what you’d really like to know from a potential match. This is the place to really just let go and reveal some of the stuff that makes you.. YOU.

More About You (step 4): This, as indicated by its name, is more about you! Stuff about the books you read, the movies you watch, what you do for exercise, the sports you like, etc. You can really tell a lot about a person by their preferences in these areas and the more they know about YOU, the more emails you’ll probably get!